Attachment theory helps to explain the relationship
between a child and their primary caregiver(s).
The nature of this relationship directly influences how the child
develops throughout the course of their lifetime, both physically and mentally. As such, this relationship will affect the child’s capacity to make friends, to explore the world around them and to engage with learning.
Thrive uses attachment theory to help us understand a child’s
behaviour and what this tells us about their social and emotional development. By understanding what a child’s behaviour is communicating about their unmet social and emotional needs, those working with the child are then in a position to make a positive difference to their life. However, if adults don’t recognise what is behind a child’s behaviour, they will find it difficult to meet the child’s needs. The result for the child can be social disengagement, underachievement in education, exclusion and potential issues in
adult life.
The Thrive Approach draws on attachment theory to explore how healthy attachment relationships can be formed and how these can be used to achieve better outcomes for children and young people.
Research tells us that our brains prioritise attachment security over exploration, suggesting that a safe relationship is necessary before a child or young person will be ready to engage with learning.
The Thrive Approach helps adults to develop empathy and
compassion for those in their care, including through understanding the potential origins of their behaviour. As an attachment-aware approach, Thrive shows how behaviour can be positively improved, while giving children a sense of security and enabling them to build emotional resilience. Ultimately, this can lead to children and young people leading fuller, healthier lives and developing the capacity to thrive.
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Attachment theory helps us understand the importance of the relationship between the child or young person and the adult.
The Thrive Approach helps adults build safe and supportive relationships so that children and young people are open to
learning.
Thrive uses attachment theory to understand children's diverse, confusing and sometimes distressing behaviour.
Thrive's relational stance enables adults to help children and young people to learn to trust, building their resilience and capacity to regulate their emotions.
Building trusting relationships offers adults supporting children and young people the very positive reality of making a difference
to young people's futures
This course discusses how as human beings, we often suffer from a fear of
getting things ‘wrong’, messing up, making mistakes. We strive for perfection, wanting to be a model colleague, the best practitioner, the perfect parent. And nowhere is this truer than in our relationships: we so desperately want to get it right for ourselves and those we care about. And yet, the reality is that relationships are a messy business where mistakes are inevitable.
The good news is that research shows that in any relationship the ‘mistakes’ – the moments of disconnection – matter far less than how and whether we can find our way back into connection with one another. In fact, when skilfully done, such repairs to the relationship actually serve to strengthen the bonds of the attachment. It is repairs that build trust.
This course is taught via one live 3 hour webinar.
Attachment - Insecure and Secure what does this look like?
How do we relate to each other?
How can we ensure healthy relationship cycles?
What do relate, rupture and repair mean? How do they impact on our relationships?
Strategies to take back into the classroom with you?